It’s all about how and what you think!
When you were born again, you were given a new nature, but renewing your mind aligns your thoughts with that nature. It is vital to embrace this Truth!
Paul wrote by The Holy Spirit in Romans chapter 12:
2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
In other Words, stop imitating the ideals and opinions of the culture around you, but be inwardly transformed by the Holy Spirit through a total reformation of how you think. This will empower you to discern God’s will as you live a beautiful life, satisfying and perfect in his eyes.
And in Philippians chapter 2:
5 Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus,