Complaining does the opposite. Complaining towards people actually has the potential of damaging their own awareness of who GOD made them to be. It causes them to question their own value or worth which hinders their spiritual growth. Complaining doesn’t fix anything!
Paul wrote by The Holy Spirit in Ephesians chapter 4:
29 Let no corrupt (unwholesome) word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification (according to the need of the moment), that it may impart grace to the hearers.
In other Words, never let ugly or hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let your words become beautiful and constructive gifts that encourage others; do this by speaking words of grace to help them.
From the beginning, THE LORD designed our life to be literally wrapped around the appointment with HIS Presence. The quickest way to destroy what GOD has given you is the finger of accusation and the spirit of complaining. Israel did both while in the wilderness. They despised the creative miracle of daily provision and forgot about The Presence of GOD Who made Himself known among them. They promoted death with their lips and received the fruit of their accusations and complaints.
What is the solution to the challenges we face in everyday living?
Paul writes by The Holy Spirit in Philippians chapter 4:
4 Be cheerful with joyous celebration in every season of life. Let your joy overflow!
5 And let gentleness be seen in every relationship, for our Lord is ever near.
6 Don’t be pulled in different directions or worried about a thing. Be saturated in prayer throughout each day, offering your faith-filled requests before God with overflowing gratitude. Tell Him every detail of your life,
7 then God’s wonderful peace that transcends human understanding, will guard your heart and mind through Jesus Christ.
8 Keep your thoughts continually fixed on all that is authentic and real, honorable and admirable, beautiful and respectful, pure and Holy, merciful and kind. And fasten your thoughts on every glorious work of God, praising Him always.
When you walk in this state, your words will reflect joy and gratitude. We are to guard our hearts from fear, anxiety, and those things that pull us away from what is to become the anchor of our soul.
It is written by The Holy Spirit in Hebrews chapter 6:
18 So it is impossible for God to lie for we know that His promise and His vow will never change! And now we have run into His Heart to hide ourselves in His faithfulness. This is where we find His strength and comfort, for He empowers us to seize what has already been established ahead of time—an unshakable hope!
19 We have this certain hope like a strong, unbreakable anchor holding our souls to God Himself. Our anchor of hope is fastened to the mercy seat in the Heavenly realm beyond the Sacred threshold
If we are complaining, our hope is being diminished. If we are truly led by The Holy Spirit, we must trust Him to resolve the issues we are complaining about. Jesus never complained, neither should we.
An obedient confession paves the way for my heart to follow. Confessing Words given to me by The Holy Spirit brings forth life to the issue at hand. We need to remember what FATHER says about us walking in hope, faith, and Love.